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- buckley0710
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- |5 days ago
- why are south african girls so hot?
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- naiveawwwwwwww
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- |5 days ago
- Outbound Immigration?
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- - naiveawwwwwwww
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  - |5 days ago
  - Tried conversing like a chatter instead of a complainer. Anyway, it's been great going so far; never thought there could be a drug such effective as this to counter my insomnia.
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- Susan.Ho
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- |5 days ago
- maybe you can i've been attcked by a group of people and they troll to find me,they have reported me for nothing,because they just don't like me for some reason and i don't know why,they all swear and tell me to go and kill myself and say that i'm lieing because i posted that i found a great on AOT,it's very crewl and it is really starting to upset me.the even put terrible post's about me so most people on AOT think that i'm a bad person,but i'm not at all.is there anyway that you can help me please nicole,as i don't know what to do anymore,thank you for your time,from susan.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |5 days ago
  - We have a no nonsense policy when it comes to abuse on the site. Here's what you can do:
    
    1. Report such users. Send me a message and I'll look into it for you.
    
    2. Give the users a thumbs down rating.
    
    3. As a last resort, you can block users. They won't be able to see your profile , send you inbox messages or chat requests.
    
    Hope that helps.
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  - - Susan.Ho
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    - |5 days ago
    - thank you i will do that,susan.
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    - Susan.Ho
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    - |5 days ago
    - thank you but i have blocked them,they all make nasty coment's on my post's.they never contact me at i think that know i will report them,for their behaviour.they bullie me in a group of them and the think that it's somehow funny.and today someone else has started going at me,i don't know what to do.i don't even have a flag because they repored me.i can't reporot them at all,so they can just keep it up,and i find it very unfair.i just want them to back off from that's all.and i wan't the report they made to be gone,because i never did anything to deserve that they are the people that need reporting,thank you so much for your help nicole you have been a great help to me,susan.
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- Alegria
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- |5 days ago
- what precisely are you managing?
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- - nicole.h
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  - |5 days ago
  - I am responsible for the smooth running of the AnybodyOutThere community. For making this a space that feels like home! Give me a shout if I can help you with something.
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Why did you join AnybodyOutThere?

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When did you join AnybodyOutThere?

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Welcome to AnybodyOutThere. Give me a shout if I can help you with something :)

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I want your AnybodyOutThere stories! What does AnybodyOutThere mean to you?

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- kevin1185
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- |2 weeks ago
- i want to hear yours first.lol
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- Syavash
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- |2 weeks ago
- nothing so far, I came here hoping to make some international friends for my lonely time (which is most of my time), but well I'm not there yet
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- 777
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- |3 weeks ago
- No being serious,i have MANY beautiful AOTers who are great.We send gifts too each other,call each othere.I have some AMAZING friends who saw me through the death of my dad,who have been there for me when i was so low with deppresion and done what my docter could NOT do ? Picked me up and made me smile.Its a great site and many great people who i DO KNOW care.Now i love too help othere,s in need.Thankyou too the AOT team for the work you ALL put into our HOME at AOT.
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- lavenderjinx
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- |3 weeks ago
- Zombies of the world ,,,, unite! Feel quite at home here
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- black-day
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- |3 weeks ago
- hello baby
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- Bobbmarly
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- |1 month ago
- A chance to be kind to a stranger without having to leave home.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |1 month ago
- thanks you AOT our lives are more ruined as they used to be. now we eat and sleep at our pc (if we sleep i mean). wish it was like drug addiction so we could quit it easily (i mean easy comparing to leaving aot)...
  and by the way, thanks to AOT, we know what "linux web monitoring tools" are since we came to your community :)
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- - Big.Lebowski
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  - |1 month ago
  - Thanks to*
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  - - 777
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    - |3 weeks ago
    - WOW so with you here B.L how true and VERY well said.
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- littleray
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- |1 month ago
- I have my own personal support group. I came here looking to break the silence that filled my nights, reminding me how empty my life had become. Three months ago, I came here, and here I shall stay. Yes, even if the server keeps crashing and we don't have private multi-chatrooms available.
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- - Bobbmarly
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  - |1 month ago
  - for private rooms try www.camfrog.com
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- rooibos
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- |1 month ago
- I've met some great people! And along the way, I've even learnt a thing or two:)
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If you could change one thing about AnybodyOutThere, what would it be?

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- lavenderjinx
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- |3 weeks ago
- and very much hope that AOT does welll enough commercially to afford some new servers soon .... lol
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- lavenderjinx
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- |3 weeks ago
- To be able to post pics during a chat would be nice
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- Fany177
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- |4 weeks ago
- i have an account on youtube, i would like for this to have a system like youtube like if a user is harrasing me i can just block it and that just one particular user won't be able to look at my profile.
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- Smexi01
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- |1 month ago
- put in someones name so u can find them
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- Jen8675309
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- |1 month ago
- Drop the content filter, it doesn't seem to be clearly defined. I think if we have a problem with the language someone uses, we can either close the chat or ask them to stop.
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- BansheeBeat
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- |1 month ago
- I really think there should be a way to delete comments.
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- EKS
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- |1 month ago
- heyy..pls add option 4 searching friends (not in ur contact list)..in order of age,country,sex...
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- Susan.Ho
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- |1 month ago
- i agree with 777 i've been attacked so badly by group's of people,i enjoy this site some of the time.now i have had more insults it's just so mean of them.is there some way you can help me please,thank you for your time nicole.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |1 month ago
  - There are a couple of things you can do.
    1.You can flag abusive/ inappropriate posts.
    2. You can report users who are harassing you.
    3. You can block users.
    We are in the process of re-evaluating our abuse system.
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  - - Susan.Ho
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    - |1 month ago
    - thank you so much,you helped me alot.
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    - Deenie
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    - |1 month ago
    - there will always be mean spirited people on here and there really isnt anything you can do to change
      the behavior accept to block them or avoid them.
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- 777
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- |1 month ago
- Too stop people putting other,s down and getting thier friends too gang up on the person being bullied it makes me sick that a site like AOT allows such behaviour.In the many months i have enjoyed AOT i see many new people comming on and just bulling its just NOT on yet happens.
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- dandelions.
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- |1 month ago
- Definitely a way to make a private group chat so we don't have to leave to talk en masse.
  
  A way to flag antagonistic users without reporting them solely through a chat window.
  
  Definitely editing posts. :)
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- - AndrewFromHere
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  - |1 month ago
  - Yes, yes, and good God yes. I agree with Ms. Lions on all three of these points.
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  - littleray
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  - |1 month ago
  - YES!!! Please! I vote for private chat rooms too. Plus, is there any way to make me look cooler?
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  - - 777
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    - |1 month ago
    - OMG Litterray YOU are sooooooooo COOL babe D;
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- bigassmidget
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- |1 month ago
- It would be great if there was a way to involve more than one person in a chat. While having a one on one is great, sometimes having three, possibly more people in a chat is entertaining.
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- - 777
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  - |1 month ago
  - But then you would have people leaving othere,s out,i dont think that would be fair.The point in posts is that everyone can join in with NO favouritism.
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  - nicole.h
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  - |1 month ago
  - We'll definitely consider this as we continue to grow:)
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  - - bigassmidget
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    - |1 month ago
    - Sounds good to me.
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- Susan.Ho
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- |1 month ago
- people pretening to be me,and i'm coping alot of crap from it.the post name is jwana i would really like to talk to them if possible but i can't ever find this person,thank you for your time.
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- - Deenie
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  - |1 month ago
  - Jwana isnt around here anymore. She has used different names in the past, but as soon
    as she's found out she leaves
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  - Dangermouse
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  - |1 month ago
  - Hehe, Jwana is a legend.
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  - - Susan.Ho
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    - |1 month ago
    - that's one of them jwana and Big Lebowski and his friend's are crewl people and need to be stopped.they think it's funny to attack,bullie and stalk me.
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    - - Decomp
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      - |1 month ago
      - You're just as guilty of all that you know.
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    - 777
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    - |1 month ago
    - Jwana is and was a bully like B.L and we will NOT tolerate it NEVER its a great site so be gone with the bullies and stalkers.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |1 month ago
- another thing:
  it would help if you can edit your comment in one or two minutes after sending them
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- - nicole.h
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  - |1 month ago
  - Nice one! Will bring it up with the team.
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- Bobbmarly
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- |1 month ago
- set it up so that you can deleat antagonistic remarks from your postings
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- - nicole.h
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  - |1 month ago
  - We are evaluating our abuse system. I will bring it up with the team.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |1 month ago
- 1. more characters!!!!
  2. see online users
  3. unblock people
  4. separate notification and inbox links in top black bar
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- - nicole.h
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  - |1 month ago
  - 1. Are you referring to the character limit on posts?
    2. You can :) Click AnybodyOutThere on the top bar. To the right, below the Notifications and Conversation log you'll see Show Online
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  - - Big.Lebowski
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    - |1 month ago
    - 1. both character limit for posts and about me
      2. i mean something like an ajax live page would be great... showing who just signed in or who logged out :D
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  - YetAnother
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  - |1 month ago
  - I agree with 2 and 3 (not sure I understand one, do you mean which characters you can type?)
    
    As for the notification and inbox button, personally I think it's fine as it is, I like the top bar being relatively uncluttered.
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  - - Big.Lebowski
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    - |1 month ago
    - 1: more allowed characters for both posts and "about me"
      4: i think it would save you one click if i becomes like (2/5) [messages/notifications]
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- PexMex
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- |2 months ago
- Inviting other people to a chat between you and someone else would be great. There's so many times when you run out of space on posts talking to a group of people that it would be awesome to chat with all of them at once.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |2 months ago
- there are some ideas me and Vector-N think would help about this adult contents
  maybe one of them will do the job, maybe you better consider all these ideas and let users pick which way may suit them most...
  here are the ideas:
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- - Big.Lebowski
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  - |2 months ago
  - my idea is to add some kind of "show/hide adult contents" checkbox so users can have more control on posts they see...
    and some flag to mark new posts as "containing adult contents" so online users can rate posts and hide them for other users.
    Vec will let you know his ideas. i've heard them and i think they also can help.
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  - - nicole.h
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    - |2 months ago
    - We will be implementing something very soon to help control adult content. The idea of being able to flag content as "adult only" is a good one though. I'll bring it up with the team.
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- Tau
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- |2 months ago
- Also, I think it would be handy to search for contacts not only though your mail contacts. E.g. user would be allowed to tag themself (hobbies, interests .. whatever) .. so the people with similar interests would found each other easier.
  
  P.S. That's also true for pervo-people. Let them find each other faster and don't bother the others, who's not interested in that stuff :)
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - Watch this space :)
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  - Vector-N
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  - |2 months ago
  - You SO nailed it tau.
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  - - Tau
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    - |2 months ago
    - :) Thanks. Btw, the IP ban hardly would work for people with dynamic IP (as I am) :)
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    - - Vector-N
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      - |2 months ago
      - thats true, but I wouldn't expect to find just ONE solution tot hat problem anyway, it is a "COMPLEX PROBLEM" , it requires the correct combination of several solutions.
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      - Tau
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        |2 months ago
        
        Oh, that would be so easy to live if every problem could be solved by only one obvious solution lol (sorry for offtop)
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        Vector-N
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        |2 months ago
        
        Indeed, but what CAN be done is the problem can be dissected and reduced to it's component elements. each of these can be addressed individually, and then a solution can be engineered as a composite.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |2 months ago
- Idea: add hide my county checkbox to settings
  Idea: double allowed characters from 110 and add something like a 'see more' button to see the rest of the post (just in home page not user profile)
  idea: chat conference!!! it would be great if you be able to add your contacts to your chats (and maybe you need the other side to approve it too)
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - Thanks for the suggestions.
    1. I'll bring the hide country option up with the team
    2. We are looking into the length of posts
    3. This is definitely something we'll consider as we continue to grow and develop ;)
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- Vector-N
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- |2 months ago
- The Censorship is an issue which comes up often with other users besides myself, the issues with it include:
  
  1. The fact that many people do not like it.
  2. The fact that it doesn't even effectively do what it seems to be made to do.
  3. the fact that is censors things which it doesn't even make sense for it to censor.
  
  would it be possible just to turn it off?
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - Censorship is a heated issue and something we are very aware of. We are evaluating it and will be making changes very soon.
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- Big.Lebowski
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- |2 months ago
- wanna see my webcam nicole?
  do something about this pervo problem. its becoming really annoying
  ban IPs
  most of the are guests
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - No one likes the webcam trolls. We are doing our best to eradicate them. Please bear with us and when you notice these users we urge you to report them.
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  - - Big.Lebowski
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    - |2 months ago
    - these are mostly guests
      they disconnect and come with a new id even before you can check the reports
      and not everybody can block ips themselves Vec
      IDEA: set a post limit too. maybe 2-3 posts an hour would be fine. everybody hate to see all first pages spammed by one word posts of same exact users...
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    - - Vector-N
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      - |2 months ago
      - We have the ability to block individuals now Big, all AOT needs to do is make sure that a record is kept of the IPs a user wishes to block then you will not see the users who you don;t wish to talk to again and the best part is it will cover trolls as well.
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  - Vector-N
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  - |2 months ago
  - Man, don;t put that burden on them, we just need the option to ban IPs ourselves. Even if somebody's a perve they have that right...doesn't mean you should have to deal with it though if you don't want to.
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- CaseyJones
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- |2 months ago
- :: Idea:: Make it when you get a notification it goes directly to the "view comments and reply" page instead of having to click 2 times to actually reply
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - nice suggestion. If you have any other suggestions I'm all ears. Also, be sure to check out our Community forum : http://community.anybodyoutthere.com/forums/41169-anybodyoutthere-community
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- Tau
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- |2 months ago
- .. Also there're some troubles with tagging the thoughts (for example, see my 3rd from the bottom).
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - We are working on our tagging. If the tags are not appropriate to the post , you can always remove the tags by clicking the X of the tag.
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  - - Vector-N
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    - |2 months ago
    - the tagging is easy to fix just add an option for users to correct the tags when they are wrong , it should work itself out.
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    - Vector-N
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    - |2 months ago
    - OH...that's good to know. :|
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- Tau
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- |2 months ago
- Maybe the ability to store chat-history somewhere .. that would be nice :)
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- - Kitkat1
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  - |2 months ago
  - The design of the front page gets a bit busy looking. I know that sounds silly cause there aint much on it but when you have so many icons/profile pics competing for your attention - they tend to overwhelm the headings of the comments. Just my view - but I love the concept.
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  - - nicole.h
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    - |2 months ago
    - You'll be glad to know we have an exciting new design planned:) So watch this space!
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  - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - You'll be glad to know we're working on that :)
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- CaseyJones
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- |2 months ago
- add a delete all to the notice box pleasse!! LOL i have like 500 pages of junk :)
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- - nicole.h
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  - |2 months ago
  - Thanks for the feedback. Not following you though. The notice box?
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  - - CaseyJones
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    - |2 months ago
    - Yes please make a select all or delete all button for the notice box.
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    - - nicole.h
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      - |2 months ago
      - Are you referring to the notifications?
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      - CaseyJones
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        |2 months ago
        
        yes
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        nicole.h
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        |2 months ago
        
        Great! I'll bring it up with the rest of the team.
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        hi-im-colton
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        |3 weeks ago
        
        o sorry team
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        hi-im-colton
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        |3 weeks ago
        
        i need a list of the time
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AnybodyOutThere : would you like to be able to prevent users from commenting on your posts?

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- Jeanettey
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- |2 months ago
- No, that would be against our USA Constitution, Freedom of Speech. And besides, this IS a chat website, a place for discussions.
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- jinjo
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- |2 months ago
- only thing that would concern me would be sexual harrassment which is very common in conversations
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- StormyPetrel
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- |2 months ago
- Don't we have that with the block feature? Or do you mean to just post without ANYONE commenting?
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- meline
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- |2 months ago
- I thought that was the point of this site, commenting on each others' post, what I object to is all the foul language that is used, I don't care if they use it on "let's talk" but I don't have to see it
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- Nesta
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- |3 months ago
- No, definitely not. In fact the more censorship and moderation that creeps in , the more likely ppl wil disappear. The basis of the site works well and you should be careful not to go backwards.
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- Deenie
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- |3 months ago
- me personally, no--i dont have a problem with negative opinions only if its borders on harassment
  but i think you know my views on censorship--lol
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- - nicole.h
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  - |3 months ago
  - We are reviewing how we deal with moderation on the site ;)
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  - - Deenie
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    - |3 months ago
    - thats going to be a challenging task for you, good luck!!!
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- TheSickMayhem
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- |3 months ago
- what would be the point of it into a community?
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- - nicole.h
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  - |3 months ago
  - I agree. I think one of the most powerful ways of generating debate in this community is through the comment system. It also gives passive users a voice. I'm just curious to get the community's input.
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- meline
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- |3 months ago
- All the "threads" I get are "Spam" I think they make my screen shudder, it scares me to think that my computer will go dark, I've deleted them forever, maybe I should unsubscribe? I'd like to thank you for this site. Don't people know that if they want to talk smutty they can do it together without sharing it, or is it a prestige thing, see how ugly I can "talk".
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- 777
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- |3 months ago
- I would like too be told the reason why i got censord and if i have offended someone then why dont you tell me how i offended as this is NOT my intennsion,you could at least tell me why.Because there are so many countrys on site our ways of banter and being serious is VERY different so its unfair too say.........you have offended without telling us how or why then dont reply too our messages asking you why?
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- - nicole.h
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  - |3 months ago
  - Hi 777.
    
    We are doing our best to keep our site clean. We want everyone to feel welcome. You would only have been censored if you posted something that may have offended someone. We are reviewing this system and it will be changed soon.
    
    About the other issue , please read the message I sent you.
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  - - 777
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    - |3 months ago
    - What about people who dont like you and complain just for badness too get you in trouble ?
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    - - nicole.h
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      - |3 months ago
      - We take that into account. We never just suspend. There is always good reason.
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      - 777
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        |3 months ago
        
        Well again thankyou and we are grateful for ALL the work you all do for the site,i am sure things will fall into place it just takes time and yes we all will help with a open mind as lifes have been saved,people who have been so low lifted and world wide friendships have came out of AOT .I do believe AOT will be the place too be not just for the laughs we have but for real life changing situations.
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        nicole.h
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        |3 months ago
        
        thanks for the positive feedback :)
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        777
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        |3 months ago
        
        Thankyou for the work you guys do too make it possible for us too reach out and truly save lives and help people smile D;
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    - 777
    - Flag this comment
    - |3 months ago
    - Well i dont swear so you must understand were i am comming from by saying i offended Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargg.
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    - 777
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    - |3 months ago
    - Thankyou.
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- buckley0710
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- |3 months ago
- the censor is annoying...half my posts get blocked
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- - nicole.h
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  - |3 months ago
  - This will be changed soon so watch this space :)
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  - 777
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  - |3 months ago
  - LOL Me too and i dont swear but i guess the AOT team have a job too do,i just wish i knew why i get censord most times.I think they should notefied you and tell you why?
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  - Deenie
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  - |3 months ago
  - well quit being nasty---lol
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  - - buckley0710
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    - |3 months ago
    - moi? never
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    - - Deenie
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      - |3 months ago
      - well then the sensor shouldnt bother you
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      - buckley0710
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        |3 months ago
        
        BlTCH it does...ooooh
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        Deenie
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        |3 months ago
        
        are you calling me a bitch asshole
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        buckley0710
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        |3 months ago
        
        no slutface i would never call you that
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        Deenie
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        |3 months ago
        
        im not a slutface you douchbag mother fucker
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        Deenie
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        |3 months ago
        
        aahhh come on you know we's playn
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        777
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        |3 months ago
        
        Buds,buds c,mon share the love not war lol.D;
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        Deenie
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        |3 months ago
        
        i figured you wouldnt have an answer to that
        i dont seem to have a problem with censors
        aah you knows i luvs ya
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        buckley0710
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        |3 months ago
        
        mother fucker ? ... rudeness
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- Deenie
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- |3 months ago
- a lot of disconnections,people are starting to think either im rude or I think no one likes me anymore :(
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- - 777
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  - |3 months ago
  - I wuvs ya D;D;D;Deenie ye ha and XMWAHX D;
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  - - Deenie
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    - |3 months ago
    - he he hows your day going?
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    - - 777
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      - |3 months ago
      - I am ill AGAIN (YUK) oh well i will fight it and be back in top form soon wuvs ya two D;
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      - Deenie
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        |3 months ago
        
        get well girl, get some rest :(
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  - nicole.h
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  - |3 months ago
  - This is something we are working on fixing as quickly as we can :)
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  - - Deenie
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    - |3 months ago
    - THANK YOU!!!!! :) you are so responsive, thanks for that, too!!!
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    - - nicole.h
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      - |3 months ago
      - :)
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      - 777
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        |3 months ago
        
        Bless you ALL at AOT and i hope you do realize MANY GREAT friendships have formed on this site D;D;D.Thankyou for ALL you ALL do .
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- 777
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- |3 months ago
- Thankyou soooooooo much this site is my other home and i have many friends i hold very close too my heart.Too think when i first joined i wanted too die as my DAD just died and the people on site helped me through my darkest months D;.Thankyou too you ALL now i love helping others who felt the way i did.
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- Deenie
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- |3 months ago
- just the GUEST that likes making annoying, rude comments, i just flag him, kind of expect him now,pretty predict able,
  Still love the site though
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- Deenie
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- |3 months ago
- All's well so far, pretty quiet at the moment.Thanks for asking!!
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AnybodyOutThere talk to me! Any problems or suggestions which could improve the site ;)

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- Greensage
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- |4 months ago
- There are several elements going on, we all see it, humor that turns to bashing which can result in hurt feelings; or subjective information (to locate those interested) attacked repeatedly and repeatedly. As with all of life we take things lightly or move on, but we as a people of a Planet (all included) are responsible adults and we should act on that. Children should know honesty and should know how to use critical thinking; this is a fully age-ranged arena, none of us should forget that, let us be civilized and keep our titilations in the bedroom, privately, where they belong!
  
  So sadly, my kind of folks are few and far between here, I know that some of this is antics but I am not feeling embraced by it when I am looking for my fellow associates, agreeable or disagreeable. The largest element I do see are boys and girls trying to find attention, sexual attention, and some of it is just plain sickening as a public forum.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - This is something we are aware of and we rely on our community to help us weed out. If you notice such users , please report them.
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  - - 777
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    - |4 months ago
    - Nicole i did and nothing was done about it?
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    - Greensage
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    - |4 months ago
    - thank you, my faith is renewed! I won't report them, I will call them out; I know I just antagonize them and that is what they want, but they should receive what they want through the recognition of their actions. A good suggestion would be to embolden the "Top Users" into setting examples, and since they are here so frequently they most likely hardly miss a post; they are respected by the attached "Badge of Honor", I can see this. Top Users are teachers because they have been here so long, they should take more active approaches in securing a finer community. Again, thank you nichole
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    - - YANKEE57
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      - |4 months ago
      - YOU ARE SO GOOD AT " BROWN NOSING " !
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      - 777
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        |4 months ago
        
        LOL
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    - YANKEE57
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    - |4 months ago
    - DON'T WORRY, SHE WILL, ! ALSO SHE'S GOING TO TATTLE ON THE KIDS CHEWING GUM IN CLASS !
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    - - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - Mines is stuck under my chair so.................NA,NA,NA NA NAAAAAAAAAAA.
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      - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - LOL c.mon please is it me or are some people going nuts over a chat site ........pleaseeeeeeeeeee.
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      - AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        True statement. I'm just here to have fun, blow off some steam. Not start a regime, topple a government, or save anyone's soul from the fires of eternal damnation.... although those things would be interesting, wouldn't they?
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        And thats what the site is ALL about sooooooo, c,mon folks we are at home here?...........Or are some of us being evicted...........OMG ........Eeeeeeeeeek,HelPPPPPPPPPPPP,Noooooooo.i am NOT leaving MY OWN HOME .I am going to my room (BIG RASSBERRY )
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Raspberry,thank God i can learn my spelling through other posts lol.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        i think the site should me 18 and over. ive talked to kids as young as 7 passing off as 18 cause they can. Have a seperate site for them and have random adults overseeing to make sure its safe.
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        So true..........no under 18teens,anyway are they not at school or was it just me who was a rebel......umm.
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        I THINK THAT YOU MIGHT BE ONTO SOMETHING !
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        I know this site isn't perfect, but I DO think it's light years better than sites like ChatRoulette. But it's also important to recognize that the policing in this community can't be done entirely by network administrators - a lot of if, keeping out the way-too young'ns, the spammers, and the like, needs to be done by the users by hitting that "report" button from time to time instead of just "calling people out in public" like some people like to do (no matter how entertaining it can be sometimes). Am I the only one that thinks this? Anyone? Anyone? Bueller?
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        AndrewFromHere i have put some thought into your above statment andyout BANG ON........Love it?
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        I'm down with that. Keep on keepin' on, Lucky 7s.
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        My dear AndrewFromHere..........................Dont worry...........we will,no baddys, just daddys on this site ye ha lol.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        but what if someone has an agenda and reports a person just because they dont like that person.Is there really any safety net for someone who maybe a target?
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        thanks hatstand
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        GREAT POINT?
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        hatstand
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        |4 months ago
        
        I think this is a very salient point. As with any regulatory mechanism, we must guard against it being used to settle personal scores. I also agree with AndrewFromHere comment that: "Maybe, after the report button is filed, there needs to be reasoning submitted as well for the network administrator to review". There must be an clear system of appeal, and any sanction should be, proportionate,a and equitable..."One who comes into equity must come with clean hands" If someone is seeking redress for a 'wrong' then the actions of the accused should be weighed against the actions of the accuser.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        what, and shoot my computer? lol
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        Maybe it's just another inevitable imperfection of the site. Maybe, after the report button is filed, there needs to be reasoning submitted as well for the network administrator to review... although we don't want to be putting too much work on top of the work nicole.h already does.... It's all kind of gray-area at a certain point, isn't it? That, or maybe we need to make Yankee a deputy sheriff of AOT or something like that.
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        THAT'S WHY FIREARMS WERE INVENTED !
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        FERRIS, FERRIS ! HAS ANYONE SEEN FERRIS ?
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Well he lives in my pitch (Glesga ) lol.
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  - YANKEE57
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  - |4 months ago
  - THANK YOU, MS. SPOIL SPORT, AS USUAL, YOU COME TO RUIN THE DAY !
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  - - Deenie
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    - |4 months ago
    - LOL
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    - - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - This ones is going to be a CRACKER...........must keep my eyes on this post lol.
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- Deenie
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- |4 months ago
- This site helped me out of a really dark hour and i know others who feel the same, the laughter, the deep talks, its all been great. thank you
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - glad you're enjoying it:)
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- Angeleyes
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- |4 months ago
- Hey nicole.h, I've only been on the site for a little while, but I can tell you that I feel comfortable coming here. It's helped with the depression and I have found people I can talk to about all kinds of topics. Mostly I get a lot of laughs from some of the post titles. Thanks.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - so very glad to hear that ! welcome :)
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  - - Angeleyes
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    - |4 months ago
    - Thank you. :)
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- 777
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- |4 months ago
- This site is like one big family who do care about each other,they may deniy it but it is the truth.Call everyone,s bluff and say the AOT TEAM have shut the site down and you will see us ALL panic. We might have some banter on site but we are like a family,why do you think the same folk are on this site ALL the time?
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- - YANKEE57
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  - |4 months ago
  - WHAT ? THE FREE COFFEE ?
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  - - AndrewFromHere
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    - |4 months ago
    - Wait, there was free coffee and nobody told me?
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    - - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - Your too greedy young man...........its fineto ok .
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      - AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        I'm not greedy, I just find that some coffee would work well for me since I'm often up late at night on this site... just another addiction to go with my addiction.
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Sotty dear......................here is that nice Ahhhhhhhhhhh coffeeeeeeeeeeeee,enjoy partner,enjoy.....oops hy,hy,cup s.Sorry again.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        greedy would have been the donuts and disneyland lol
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        I'm layin' off the donuts, but who could resist Disneyland? We could all go on "It's A Small World" over and over and have what is left of our collective sanity destroyed!
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        ya donuts be gone. but im going to get to disneyland this summer somehow. im only 5 hours away. or sit through captain eo
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        LOL.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        heehe it wouldnt be the same without yee
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Any room pleaseeeeeeee dont leave me out,WEcan all go together and blow the disney characters oot the water ye ha LOL.
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      - Deenie
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      - |4 months ago
      - i didnt get the memo either
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      - YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        NEXT YOU ARE GOING TO SAY THAT YOU DIDN'T GET MEMO ON THE DISNEY TRIP IN SEPT !
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Ha ha ha lol lo lo you nut job........love ya he he.
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        DISNEY???? YANKEEEEEEE!!!!!!
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        ANDREW I PUT YOUR NAME IN THE POT, JUST IN CASE, YOU DIDN'T GET BACK FROM KANSAS, IN TIME ! WE'RE NOT IN KANSAS ANYMORE, ARE WE ?
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        yankee, tell me it isnt so :( :(
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        PERSONALLY, I JUST WANT TO MEET PLUTO !
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      - YANKEE57
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      - |4 months ago
      - YOU SNOOZE, YOU LOSE ! PASS THE DONUTS BART !
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      - 777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Dah okay dadeee dahhhhhhh.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        donuts too? thats okay, i quit those :(
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    - 777
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    - |4 months ago
    - I will make you one my fav,person on this site...........i love YANKEE57 YE HA,your a buzz,a great laugh,but you are wise when need be.YANKEEE,YANKEEE,DEENIE,DEENIE,HATSTAND,HATSTAND,BUCKLEY,BUCKLEY,TOOTSWEET,TOOTSWEET,JACK/KARVEN,1121,1121,JUDITH I love you ALL and MANY more yessss.
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    - - YANKEE57
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      - |4 months ago
      - MADAM, I AM FOREVER, IN YOUR DEBT !
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      - 777
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        |4 months ago
        
        And mine in your my HERO ye ha go YANKEE WE LOVE YOUUUU XXXXXXXXXX
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      - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - Jud,jud,jud i love you.xxxxxMWAHX
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- AndrewFromHere
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- |4 months ago
- Yes, yes I do! It's fantastic!
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- - 777
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  - |4 months ago
  - Its my other home ......ahhhhhh,but true at least i am being honest.I send a personal message to ALL my contacts on AOT every day to lift their spirits.I have also called some buds by phone and its been great i love my American friends accent.
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  - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - :) glad to hear you're enjoying it.
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  - - YANKEE57
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    - |4 months ago
    - I DON'T KNOW YOU BUT THANKS FOR KEEPING THIS FUNHOUSE GOING !
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    - 777
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    - |4 months ago
    - Nicole.h, i have never laughed,cryed with some,helped,had great fun with,since my HERO MY DAD died in christmas 09,infact i told my doc i dont need counciling anymore as AOT IS my meds,ye ha . And i am being VERY serious.
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    - AndrewFromHere
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    - |4 months ago
    - It's addictive, and incredibly fun. Just a few glitches and things that maybe need a li'l more improvement, but it's definitely the online chatting Web site thingy that I've stayed at the longest because the people here are the most fun to talk to and the community as a whole is entertaining. Now if only I could figure out how to become a "Top User"....
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    - - nicole.h
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      - |4 months ago
      - welcome :)The top user badges we give to users who are very active and contribute to the community.
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      - 777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Nicole my hair has grown 15inch,since comming to AOT,I am an addict now,if i was any more active on here i would grow mushrooms on my head lol.
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        Deenie
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        |4 months ago
        
        LOL
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        WHAT ABOUT THE REST OF US , WHO JUST ASK FOR SPARE CHANGE ?
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        AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        I've always got at least a penny for yer thoughts, Yankee.
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        YANKEE57
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        |4 months ago
        
        THANK YOU, AT LEAST I'LL NEVER BE BROKE !
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        AndrewFromHere ........................dont the guy is crazy,nuts,mental,derranged...........but were would we be without the Fruit cake.............ye ha LOL MWAHX MY Yankee57 xxxxxxxxxxxx.
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      - 777
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      - |4 months ago
      - Welcome to our big family as for the top user who cares just be niceeeeee xxxxxxxxx
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      - AndrewFromHere
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        |4 months ago
        
        But... but... but.... I'm always niceeeee!!! Unless it comes to Justin Bieber....
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        777
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        |4 months ago
        
        Who he?Justin .........................WHAT ?NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.
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- Rmcfarland76
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- |4 months ago
- sometimes
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- Laluna
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- |4 months ago
- EXTREMELY seldom, but there is a hidden pearl sometimes if you are VERY VERY lucky and not get another abusive or sex oriented "being". I try to stay invisible most of the time precisely because of that.
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- - 777
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  - |4 months ago
  - As for the GREAT laughs from certain members.............ye cannie beat it ye ha lol i love it.
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  - YANKEE57
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  - |4 months ago
  - AND MANY OF US , APPRECIATE THAT !
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  - - Laluna
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    - |4 months ago
    - thank you very much. don´t know what i did to upset you so? if i did might at least be given the chance to apolgize.
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    - - YANKEE57
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      - |4 months ago
      - SORRY, KID! I WAS JUST BEING SARCASTIC , NO HARM MEANT ! YOU DON'T SEEM TO COME OUT OF YOUR SHELL OFTEN ENOUGH !
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      - 777
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        |4 months ago
        
        True ,true,true.Join our family Laluna and have fun,laughs and a total ball yesssss.
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- YANKEE57
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- |4 months ago
- NAW, WELL MAYBE, SOMETIMES !
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- - 777
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  - |4 months ago
  - Nice one Nicole.h i bet you get a badge for this post...........lol...........love it.
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- StormyPetrel
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- |4 months ago
- It would be nice to be able to include more info on one's profile page. However, I would be frustrated greatly by the site if it got as tag/interest/fan/app ridden as FB or as visually noisy as MS. Please try to keep it simple, that singular quality is one of my favourite things about this site.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - thanks for the feedback. we are constantly making changes and working on improving things so watch this space.
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- Paul_from_aust
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- |4 months ago
- 1. Limit the number of posts each guest can make (say, 2). Sick of guests asking for multiple requests.
  2. A section for adult themed chat topics (uncensored)
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - thanks for the suggestions. I'll bring them up with the rest of the team.
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- achillesheel
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- |4 months ago
- Another one. Betcha wished you hadn't asked now :)
  Have the ability to unsubscribe from conversation notifications. I commented on a conversation that blew up into many replies that I became uninterested in so I want to stop receiving notifications. Maybe there's a way I haven't spotted yet...?
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - Are you kidding me , I love the feedback :)
    
    As for unsubscribing from a conversation or thread there is an option under the settings tab. Click settings (on the top bar) and then notifications. There you will see an option to stop receiving notifications on your posts and comments. We are going to be changing this very soon giving you more options like unsubscribing from threads.
    
    I hope that helps.
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- achillesheel
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- |4 months ago
- I would like to improve the private messages and notifications area. When someone comments on conversation thread the notification will only show the single response or a few responses in the conversation. I'm guessing maybe there's some logic to group closely timed responses into one notification. I find it difficult to remember what all the various conversations are and what was said previously in the conversation. It would be useful to either show more, or have the ability to load all messages in the same window and be able to reply to them. Navigating away from my inbox frustrates me because I want to flip through the comments quickly without navigating away.
  
  Loading the full thread and the ability to reply in the inbox via an asynchronous call is technically more difficult but would a nice feature to have rather than needing to navigate away. You could then effectively manage all your ongoing conversations in one area.
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - Thanks for the suggestion. I'll take it up with the rest of the team.
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  - Kapongham
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  - |4 months ago
  - This is a great suggestion. It would also lower the number of notifications I get, which would be a boon.
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    - |4 months ago
    - Well I don't see it reducing the number of notifications, unless there's some more additional stuff to turn off notifications for a particular conversation rather than a switch for all conversations.
      
      What did you have in mind?
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- Jen8675309
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- |4 months ago
- no censoring
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- - nicole.h
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  - |4 months ago
  - thanks for the suggestion. We will consider it.
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- YANKEE57
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- |5 months ago
- you may be having problems but censorship rankles americans and it always will !
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- cristoforo81
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- |5 months ago
- The censorship is extremely important and very much appreciated. I am not familiar with ALL the chat sites out there, but this is the only chat site i have seen that is welcoming to people of ages from all over the world because people behave kindly and maturely. Thank you for that. So many people would like to chat with strangers online but do not because of the excessive amount of nonsense you have to deal with. As Nicole said, without censorship the flood gates are open. A certain webcam chat site comes to mind... If more people could find this site I'm sure they would feel the same way. So, thank you, for keeping this clean. And p.s. i can see your post while logged in now.
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  - oh, also the rating system and mostly the ability to report or "flag" inappropriate or mean behavior is important. It takes constant work on the website managers side to keep that effective. Sometimes websites like this slack off and eventually stop monitoring, so hope that doesn't happen! And don't everybody think I'm some kind of anybodyoutthereCOP now haha, it's all good with me. Unless you're just plain rude and nasty to everybody for no reason. I'm just saying it's nice to not see all that.
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- YANKEE57
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- WHAT IS WITH ALL OF THIS RANDOM CENSORSHIP, DON'T YOU HAVE ANY ADULTS RUNNING
  THE FRONT OFFICE, STOP BEING SO POLITICALLY CORRECT, YOU HAVE PEOPLE ON HERE CONSTANTLY TALKING ABOUT KILLING THEMSELCVES BUT YOU CENSOR A LITTLE BAWDY HUMOR !
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- - nicole.h
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  - |5 months ago
  - Ok , please please please stop with the caps. My ears are hurting:P As for the censorship , we are trying to keep this site clean. Once you start making exceptions you open the flood gates for all sorts.
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  - Tootsweet
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  - |5 months ago
  - Well, yes I did get censored for saying "pee"! No kidding! How is that even the least bit dirty? I don't use profanity.... Had to laugh!
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  - - nicole.h
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    - |5 months ago
    - It's tricky and not an exact science .. we're working on it.
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- Tootsweet
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- Hey Girlie! No complaints or problems! Just "hello"! :-)
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- - nicole.h
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  - hi and welcome :)
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- medalf
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- |5 months ago
- It would be great to select the tag we want after writing a subject. ie. "Harry Potter" or "Twilligt" (don't mind me I don't like any of theses two) And then select the tag "book" or "movie" to fit more with .
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- crisco
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- |5 months ago
- Yes, when i log in I see different posts than when I am not logged in, feels like i am limited to the strangers i can connect with. Other than that, awesome site!
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- - nicole.h
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  - That's because when you log in our algorithm processes your post and presents you with the most relevant people to talk with based on your post.
    
    Glad you're enjoying the site though.
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- ANation
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- |5 months ago
- i luv the site hon. is there any way to block people from commenting on ur posts though?
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- - nicole.h
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  - At the moment no. I'll look into it for you though : ) Glad you're enjoying the site.
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- CorgiDog
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- It might be a good idea to have a general chat room from the main menu that anyone could add to. It could have ongoing dialogue and could generate break out rooms in an easier manner than being required to select the Let's Talk button and be stuck with one person you soon find out you have nothing in common with.
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- - medalf
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  - |5 months ago
  - Try IRC channel
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  - nicole.h
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  - |5 months ago
  - That sounds very much like a forum. Thanks for the suggestion though.
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- Kapongham
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- I'd really like be able to filter *out* some users's posts... by username. Many just post nonsensical things or repeated posts. I appreciate and look forward to people I know have great posts - perhaps a filter just for people in my contact list, or a list of people I don't want to see posts from? Just an idea.
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- - nicole.h
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  - You can filter search results and look for posts by your contacts by clicking the filter button on the search results page. We don't have an option to filter out posts or to see just see posts by your contacts. Thanks for the suggestion : ) I'll take it up with the rest of the team.
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    - |6 months ago
    - Ooh awesome, thanks! I didn't know that. (:
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- kay-marie
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- |6 months ago
- Thats a silly question if you do not mind my saying so.... this site AnybodyOutThere is really cool! I have met some really nice people... or persons... to talk to...
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- - nicole.h
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  - Glad to hear you're enjoying the site.
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Mandela celebrates 20 yrs of freedom by inviting former jailers to dinner. Now that is reconciliation!

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Now you can comment on user's posts - try it now ; )

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New AnybodyOutThere feature : now you can comment on other users posts. Just click the comment button : )

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The future is mobile ... soon the PC will be an anachronism.

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Why is it that Mugabe still has any say in what happens in Zimbabwe?

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Has anyone seen some of the pictures that have come out of Haiti? Those journalists should be ashamed!

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What obligation does the rest of the world have to help the people in Haiti affected by the recent earthquake?

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When you make peace with the fact that we all have to die all petty worries become very inconsequential.

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It bugs me that a woman's beauty and vitality seems to expire while men become more attractive with age.

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