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longjohn69
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I SOUND CONTRADITORY,BUT IS THERE A GOD OR NOT,...IF SO I AM FURIOUS AT HIM FOR KILLING MY MOTHER.

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- RatsLiveOnNoEvilStar
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- |1 day ago
- There is a remote possibility that a deity exists, but everything we've ever discovered, every approximate truth uncovered, has pointed to this as being a universe devoid of divinity, devoid of any cosmic overseer. The only arguments anyone has come up with for the existence of a deity are rooted in wishful thinking and arbitrary, groundless hope. And those arguments are simply not convincing to the intellectually honest inquirer. It is terribly tragic that your mother is no longer living, my own died in 2005, well before old age. As much as it would be nice to think some divine being "had a plan" for her, and that presumably her torturous cancer was part of that plan... and as much as it would be nice to have someone or something to blame for it... I can't bring myself to believe in something that simply has no basis in reality, just because it happens to be comforting. I wish you luck, as "the grieving process" really is a bitch.
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- - Froggie
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  - |1 day ago
  - I will keep you both in my prayers.
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  - - RatsLiveOnNoEvilStar
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    - |1 day ago
    - Well, I appreciate the sentiment, Froggie. But speaking for myself, there's really no need to put me in your prayers. I wouldn't want you to sacrifice a goat for me either, and it would do about as much good. No offense. Again, the -sentiment- is appreciated.
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    - - Tootsweet
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      - |1 day ago
      - Prayers are the same as good thoughts.... You don't have to be religious to appreciate someone praying for you :)
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      - RatsLiveOnNoEvilStar
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        Yeah. You are right. I mean, prayers said by others for me don't really do me any good by means of directing a divine force upon my life, but the generosity of someone considering me in their thoughts... well, it's comforting to know about. And probably also it is comforting to the person thinking those thoughts. All of these are good things irregardless of unfortunate supernaturalism.
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        Froggie
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        |19 hours ago
        
        Correct. I feel good to send you good thoughts. Tootsweet is right. I feel better and I hope you do to to think someone is thinking about you.
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- Froggie
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- |2 days ago
- He didn't kill your mother, he just took her back home again.
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- Tootsweet
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- |2 days ago
- Seriously?
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- bigassmidget
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- |11 hours ago
- He lives in the bottom of a tequila bottle. But you have to drink what's inside to get to him
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- - blueberrymarshmella
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  - |11 hours ago
  - Oh..I love tequilla...lol Well, mixed with something fruity of course, but unfortunately its 4:30 am here and I am 30 minutes away from the nearest anything store..and I have two kids to lug around...I'll have to take a pass on Mr. Tequila tonight...
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  - - bigassmidget
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    - |11 hours ago
    - I'm going out on Friday. I'll tell him you said Hi.
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    - - blueberrymarshmella
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      - |11 hours ago
      - Thanks alot =P
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      - bigassmidget
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        |11 hours ago
        
        No problem. He has a distant cousin twice removed... Maybe you're heard of him? Goes by the name of Nyquil?
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        blueberrymarshmella
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        |11 hours ago
        
        haha...Nyquil makes me hyper...lol I hate taking that junk. My children are the same way. Medicines that are suposed to help you rest and feel better do the opposite to us, but my husband on the other hand can take one dose and be knocked out for hours...lol
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        bigassmidget
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        |11 hours ago
        
        Oh yeah me to. I lick the cap of the bottle and I'm out cold. How long has it been that you can't get to sleep?
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        blueberrymarshmella
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        |11 hours ago
        
        A few months..lol About 3...I think. I went through some life changing events and things just havne't been the same for me anymore. My husband works a weirdo job and is never here, so I couldn't really sleep when he isn't here before hand but atleast I got some sleep. Now its like I try and try but I will fall asleep for like an hour at most and I am awake. But my body eventually does take revenge on me..lol Every once in a while I'll be relaxing on the couch or something and I get knocked out for hours...lol
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        bigassmidget
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        |10 hours ago
        
        Oh yeah it is. I totally agree with that. Being selfish sometimes is what we need. And yeah changing is never easy. I see it as one of the hardest things any human has to do. Praying to me is a touchy subject. Not because I do it and believe it but because I don't and that is why I don't talk about to people since I have respect for their beliefs. And I'm glad you have inspiration. It actually reminds me of a short story I read once. I can sent it to you via message on here if you like.
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        blueberrymarshmella
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        |10 hours ago
        
        I know change is a part of life rather we are ready for it or not. Change is also sooo hard, but if we never had it life would get really monotonous. My body is changing and dealing with things in its own time and unfortunately sleep is something that has got all screwed up. I pray so much about everything but it seems pretty useless eomtimes, I know that sounds awful, but it is true. I undertsand everything you are telling me, and I don't think you sounded condescending at all. I am just gonna deal with things as the come and hopefully out of all these problems and being sleep deprived =) I will become a better person in the end. There for a while, nothing in my life was in my control and was just there..empty..but now things are better and I am realizing so much about myself and everything I ever thought was set in stone but really wasn't. I may have some inspiration of my own but it maybe selfish, but its okay to be selfish sometimes...lol
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        bigassmidget
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        |10 hours ago
        
        Life's change all the time and at the risk of sounding like I am condescending which I'm not we all hove have to evolve and grow out of it. But it takes something extra in us. Something that is inside us that still has no word for it. Love for my wife and inspired mine. But love alone did not make it happen. The unfair feelings you have are not ridiculous at all. That is the thing I am talking about. That one thing you have in you that needs to come out. And slowly it is. Live off of that. You've changed once do it again. This time you have control over it and this time can be for the one thing you really want.
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        blueberrymarshmella
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        |10 hours ago
        
        So much stuff happened in a short time and it's like I got lost somewhere in that time. I had surgery and then a cancer scare and well, I dealt with all of this alone and my body sorta reprogrammed itself. More than just my sleep patterns has changed and sometimes I am scared of the person I am becomming..I know this sounds ridiculous.... I know the unfair feeling, cause my kids want me to do things sometimes and I feel like a truck ran over me, but then sometmes I sleep and feel awful too..soo..either way I am all messed up =) I amhoping though and praying that one day everything will go back to normal.
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        bigassmidget
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        |10 hours ago
        
        I can relate to that actually. Not in the sense like you but I can. When I got back from the middle east I had a horrible time sleeping. I tried everything I could but I couldn't I was in a place I wasn't used to. And just like you when I relax somewhere... Literally anywhere I would fall asleep for hours at a time. I could be sitting at a backyard barbecue with friends and fall asleep. Eventually though I just decided that i need to sleep for those around me. In my case it was for my wife and daughter. It wasn't fair to them that I was always feeling run down and tired all the time. I know it's easier said than done. But you have to find your new comfort zone.
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